[a-moron]

I really wanted one, pretty much just cos of the name.

Plus, it allows you sleep with something huge between your legs when your man is away and not feel like you're acting in sin.
Just need to get you a spray tan for Christmas now and we've got ourselves some trigonometry people.

[Nicola_Red]

That is very true. Also I thought it might be good support for my poor sore back. But I can't afford to spend £25 on a big pillow at this time of year. I already laid out £60 for my tattoo deposit!

[Misfit]

dont see my girlf for nearly 4 week

Get in! Nice one m'lad, bit of free time to do manly things! While the cats away the mice will play, make hey whilst the sun shines and any port in a storm spring to mind!

Funnily enough that's what his girlfriend said to me.

haha, no, Im gonna try and be good for this relationship...

and deadly..keep dreaming lad

[The Deadly]

I get enough action from the lovely ladies on Plenty of Fish to keep me occupied! She'll have to join the back of a very extensive queue*


*could be a lie

[bmstinton93]

finished uni for the christmas! GET IN!

bad point, dont see my girlf for nearly 4 week :'(

I'm currently going through exactly the same. It's shit

[Misfit]

To say we havent been together very long, i really miss her. theres always skype though

[Nicola_Red]

Mr Red and I have been together ten weeks and I miss him terribly if I don't see him for a day. So I don't think how long you've been together necessarily has any bearing on it.

[Boboff]

It does.

The first three months are the worst for missing them, after 17 years it gets a little easier.

Mrs B was on nights last night, well still is, I do miss her, I had to make my own Tea!

[dimtimjim]

^^ Bobs words of wisdom there. It certainly does.

I'm a big supporter of the theory that if you live in each others pockets you soon get fed up of each other. Having a little time apart is only a good thing. An evening, a night, a weekend - abscence makes the heart grow fonder.

Am I more grateful to see Mrs DTJ after 13 hours at work, or after a 5 day weekend riding my bike in Spain..?

Honestly, you young 'uns moaning about a little time apart... As long as you're in a trusting relationship I don't see the issue, you've not split up!

[Boboff]

Indeedy.

Not Needy, thats what screws a relationship.

You have to be quiet happy to be on your own, and capable of it, and practicing it, otherwise it all gets too intence and doomed to failure.

[Nicola_Red]

Missing someone and needy are not necessarily the same thing.

[The Deadly]

Do you demand constant attention in your relationship?

[dimtimjim]

Do you need to ask that question?!

[a-moron]

Do you want to buy a boat?

[Boboff]

Missing someone and needy are not necessarily the same thing.

I knows that my dear, and I wasn't implying, infering or indeed grumpily stating.

When you have been together for ever, that heart felt yearning, missing, excitement is something you remember with fondness.

Enjoy it, it's great.

[Boboff]

Oh what the heck.

Double post, but kind of relevant, I have just finished decorating my christmas cake....... Heres a pic!

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See even a jaundiced old man can be a soppy twat! ( Look no kids, take the * hint will you my little darlings!)

[The Deadly]

Do you need to ask that question?!

Yes I'm genuinely interested. If she chooses not to answer I respect that.

[Nicola_Red]

Do you demand constant attention in your relationship?

Er, I dunno. I don't think I do, in the sense that he and I are both at work and I'm not texting him going "give me your attention NOW!" But I suspect I'm not the better person to give an unbiased answer, so I shall put it to him and get back to you shortly.

[dimtimjim]

Oh what the heck.

Double post, but kind of relevant, I have just finished decorating my christmas cake....... Heres a pic!

phoone 004.jpg

See even a jaundiced old man can be a soppy twat! ( Look no kids, take the * hint will you my little darlings!)

Nice, well done Bob.

Merry Christmas.

[The Deadly]

Do you demand constant attention in your relationship?

Er, I dunno. I don't think I do, in the sense that he and I are both at work and I'm not texting him going "give me your attention NOW!" But I suspect I'm not the better person to give an unbiased answer, so I shall put it to him and get back to you shortly.

I don't think it's a bad thing to seek attention by the way I was just curious in the dynamic of your relationship or in other words nosey.

[Nicola_Red]

I don't think it's a bad thing to seek attention by the way I was just curious in the dynamic of your relationship or in other words nosey.

Okay, here is his response, copied and pasted from an email:

I've never really thought you have demanded constant attention - if anything, I would say that I'm probably more guilty of that if either of us is. Even if you did, then I'm sure that it would either settle down once you felt a bit more secure about stuff (in whatever capacity that may be) and if it didn't, then I probably wouldn't have that much of an issue with it as I'm sure the positives would outweigh any negatives that may be associated with it.

So there ya go.

[Boboff]

Wow he writes like a proper grown up!

[Nicola_Red]

He really does! Although being 35, I'd hope so.

[The Deadly]

He seems like a pretty cool guy.

[Nicola_Red]

I think so, yeah.